Protecting the Family Home: The Caretaker Child Exception in Medicaid Planning
For many families, the home is more than just a financial asset—it’s a place of deep emotional significance and generational legacy. When planning for long-term care, protecting the home from Medicaid estate recovery is a top priority. One powerful but often overlooked strategy is the Caretaker Child Exception.
What Is the Caretaker Child Exception?
Under Medicaid rules, most transfers of assets within five years of applying for long-term care benefits trigger a penalty. However, the Caretaker Child Exception allows a parent to transfer their primary residence to an adult child without penalty, provided specific conditions are met.
This exception acknowledges the vital role family caregivers play in keeping aging parents at home and out of institutional care. It also offers a way to preserve the family home from Medicaid estate recovery after the parent’s death.
Who Qualifies?
To use this exception, the adult child must:
- Live in the parent’s home for at least two years immediately before the parent enters a nursing home.
- Provide care that delayed the parent’s need for institutional care. This includes help with:
- Activities of Daily Living (ADLs): bathing, dressing, mobility, toileting.
- Instrumental Activities of Daily Living (IADLs): meal preparation, medication management, transportation.
The care must be substantial and well-documented. A physician’s statement confirming that the child’s care prevented institutionalization is typically required.
Documentation Is Key
Medicaid agencies require strong evidence to approve this exemption. Recommended documentation includes:
- Proof of residency: utility bills, tax returns, or affidavits from neighbors.
- Proof of care: daily care logs, physician letters, and third-party affidavits.
- Proof of relationship: birth or adoption certificates.
Legal and Tax Considerations
While this strategy avoids Medicaid penalties and estate recovery, it’s not without risks:
- Loss of control: An outright transfer gives the child full ownership, exposing the home to their creditors or divorce proceedings.
- Tax implications: The child may lose the “step-up” in basis for capital gains tax purposes if the home is gifted during the parent’s lifetime.
To mitigate these risks, many elder law attorneys recommend transferring the home using a life estate or placing it in an irrevocable trust. These options preserve the parent’s rights during life and may offer better tax outcomes.
Why This Matters
The Caretaker Child Exception is a compassionate and practical tool that rewards families for keeping loved ones at home. It can help preserve the family home, reduce reliance on institutional care, and protect assets for future generations.
However, the rules are complex and vary by state. Improper transfers or inadequate documentation can result in costly Medicaid penalties. That’s why it’s essential to work with a qualified elder law attorney to ensure compliance and maximize protection.

Andrew H. “Andy” Hook
After leading the firm for over 30 years, Andrew H. “Andy” Hook transitioned to Chairman of the Board of Directors in 2025. An accomplished attorney elected into the Virginia Lawyers Hall of Fame in 2021, Andy continues to enjoy a long and highly respected legal career practicing in estate and trust administration, elder law, estate planning, tax, retirement, business succession, special needs planning, long-term care, and asset protection planning. As Chairman of the Board, Andy focuses on the firm’s future while ensuring the same level of exceptional client service he has provided throughout his career. While Andy continues to serve his clients at the highest level, he is also focusing his attention on mentoring and developing the rest of Hook Law’s attorneys and paralegals to ensure consistency and continuity of the Hook Law experience for current and future clients alike.
A 1975 graduate of the University of Virginia’s School of Law, Andy is a Fellow of the American College of Trust and Estate Counsel (ACTEC) and the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys (NAELA). He is also certified as an Elder Law Attorney (CELA) by the National Elder Law Foundation, a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ (CFP®), Accredited Estate Planner® (AEP®), and an accredited attorney for the preparation, presentation, and prosecution of claims for veteran benefits before the Department of Veterans Affairs. Andy is a former President of the Special Needs Alliance, a nationwide network of disability attorneys, a former Director of NAELA, and a former editor-in-chief of the NAELA Journal.
Andy resides in Virginia Beach, Virginia with his wife, Maureen. Outside of his legal practice, he enjoys exploring emerging technologies and sharing his extensive legal expertise with colleagues and peers.
Practice Areas
- Elder Law
- Estate & Trust Administration
- Estate Planning
- Asset Protection Planning
- Long-Term Care Planning
- Special Needs Planning
- Financial Planning
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